Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Arab Kucing Kurap

A Casual Discourse on Arab Chauvinism within the Local Muslim Community

In the Malay language, ‘Kucing Kurap’ translates roughly to mean ‘a cat with a fungal infection’. The phrase is often used as a metaphorical expression to denote the less desirable members of society. Placed side by side with the word ‘Arab’ it makes for a catchy, albeit offending, rhyme.

Racial jibes within the local Muslim community are not uncommon. While most are done with tongue in cheek and harbour no deeper malaise, none is repeated as often as the one above.

My personal encounter with the racist phrase ‘Arab Kucing Kurap’ came one evening as I was relating a personal encounter to an acquaintance. Upon listening to my story, he blurted out the racial maxim in anger.

I am getting married this August to an ethnic Arab lady. She maintains her title and clan affiliation as part of her official name in the National Registration. Her Identity Card states 'Arab' as her official race.

But it’s not something that I give a damn about. A person’s ethnicity is not, and never was, a criterion in my choosing of a life partner. Destiny dictated that our paths crossed. I am marrying her for her maturity despite her age, her patience in being the family’s main breadwinner, her duty to God, and her ability to tame my guts.

Her guardians have given their blessings to the marriage. However, as more distant relatives got word that she is about to marry a non-Arab, murmurs of discontent erupted into loud angers of protest. One of the relatives even went so far as to call up her mother to ask why consent had been given to this marriage given the obvious fact that I am not an Arab.

“Arabs are superior”, one of her aunts stated vehemently one day.

“In the after life, Arabs will be given a special standing to be at the front lines with the descendants of Prophet Muhammad. That is why Arabs must only marry Arabs and preserve the race”, she maintained.

I am not sure where she received this piece of ‘religious information’ from. But I am beginning to think that misguided ideals such as these are the roots of Arab chauvinism and misplaced sense of superiority within the Muslim community – even right here in multi-racial Singapore.

Islam is a religion that rejects the notion of a "superior race" and holds equality amongst all mankind as one of its predominant ideals. There are no caste systems and no privileged clans within the religion. And there is absolutely no truth to this aunt’s claims that “Arabs will be given a special standing” in the after life.

In fact, Prophet Muhammad made it very clear in his final sermon that was delivered shortly before his death:

“All mankind is from Adam and Eve. An Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab, nor does a non-Arab have any superiority over an Arab; white has no superiority over black, nor does a black have any superiority over white; except by piety and good action. Learn that every Muslim is a brother to every Muslim and that the Muslims constitute one brotherhood.”

The notion of true Islamic meritocracy is further emphasised in the Quran Surah Al-Hujurat, Chapter 49 Verse 13:



"O men! Behold, We have created you all out of a male and a female, and have made you into nations and tribes, so that you might come to know one another. Verily, the noblest of you in the sight of God is the one who is most deeply conscious of Him. Behold, God is all-knowing, all-aware."

It is clear that there is no basis in Islam on which Arabs here have developed their chauvinism upon. But this misplaced sense of superiority has no social or economic basis either.

In Singapore, the days of wealthy and prestigious Arab families are long gone. Today, the social economic status of the local Muslim community has largely evened out. Our top national students, wealthiest entrepreneurs, highest ranking civil servants and most brilliant politicians are all ‘Ajmis’ (what Arabs call the rest of us non-Arabs).

In contrast, Arabs have largely failed to produce a meaningful impact on the local community beyond what their forefathers have done in the past. Today, their children are largely ordinary members of society who do no better than the average Muslim family. In fact, some of my wife-to-be Arab relatives are on Government assistance for low income families and are staying in a one-room taxpayer subsidised apartment. The fact that they still think of themselves as the "superior race" still baffles me.

Let us not forget that when the early Arab Muslims were under siege from murderous infidels, Muhammad sent them to take refuge in Abyssinia, a black nation that housed and sheltered them. This event is reminder enough that skin colour must never be a barrier for us Muslims to co-exist harmoniously as one brotherhood, each in need of the other.

In the context of a multi-racial country like Singapore where Muslims comprise of a myriad of very different ethnicities – Indians, Chinese, Malays and Arabs, this dogma of a "superior race" is detrimental and contrary to what Islam preaches. Muslims here will not achieve anything beyond an insignificant footnote in the story of Singapore if we continue to divide ourselves along the racial line. Let us abandon all forms of racial stigmatisms within us, including racial jibes such as ‘Arab Kucing Kurap’.

11 comments:

  1. Assalamualaikum brother,

    You might want to read my take on racists amongst us where I have insinuated to them that Malaikats Mungkar and Naqir won't be asking questions about one's race, social status, etc?

    Please visit :
    http://mahaguru58.blogspot.com/2009/05/talqin-soalan-bocor-serta-soalan-yang.html

    Thank you.

    Wassalamualaikum wr wb.

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  2. Arab Kucing Kurap is the name given to old arab women who are still not married becos their fathers insist on finding an arab men to marry.

    Then when they do find an arab man, its another arab kucing kurap because the man do not have high qualifications, have lousy jobs and have very low pay compared to his peers.

    today arrogant arabs are losing out to more educated malays. when they will realise this is Allahs 's will.

    as long as we Muslims are not united and see ourselves as arabs and non arabs, well, we cannot achive anything.

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  3. Wow, you actually DO realise how it feels like to have people hating you based on unfairness.

    Maybe her aunt only think of you as "kucing kurap" as well, or whatever it is in Arabic, but I'm sure you'll know what it is because of your extensive religious and Arabic knowledge that gives you the right to condemn others such as "deviants" and "astrayers".

    Since you're so not racist, tell me, would you marry a Jew? Do you hate Jews? I'm sure you do with Israel and all that.

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  4. Great article! Thank you for standing up for the community!

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  5. Some arabs in S'pore are quite friendly. While majority of those inherit the riches of their ancestors tend to be more business minded which is quite a different thinking from most of the 'local' malays here. Maybe, this could the reason of arab chauvinism.

    And some arab ladies here in S'pore are very modern. They do not cover their aurat. Worse, they even go clubbing till subuh. Hmm...

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  6. Amaong us Muslims, the Arabs think highly of themsleves. Their names they believe strike awe. The mamaks (Indian descent) think given their sharp tongues they are the natural leaders amongst the Mslays. Even Javanese think they are superior to the others from the Nusantara.

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  7. There is absolutely no basis for Arabs to feel superior about themselves. Islam is a religion that treats everyone equally, unlike some other religions with caste systems, and one person from another caste cannot marry another person from another caste. What Arabs are trying to do with this "marry only Arab" thins is almost a revival of the caste system which Islam despises.

    Bravo for standing up to this issue and having the guts to speak out against it for the sake of all Muslims.

    But you sure do have a lots of guts picking a fight with your in laws 2 months before your wedding! :)

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  8. Its about time the Muslim community in Singapore unite as one; not be segregated by races. The first step would be to eliminate the 'Malay/Muslim' phrase that the Malay community and the media is soooo fond of using. Its despicable!! Does that mean that only malays can be muslims !! Im indian muslim and there are malays who view me as a lesser muslim coz of my race. We need to eradicate this eugenics-based pecking order. The term Muslim needs to be more inclusive. Use english instead of malay as a language of communication; 'sharahan' or lectures in masjids shld use english. The Muslim community also needs to face current affairs issues (homosexuality, terrorism); not just focus on malay issues (teen pregnancy, incest on the malay community - freakishly growing trend !!)

    Its about time we be more proactive instead of just reactive and defensive...

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  9. Reminds me of this Pakistani guy I knew. He asked me about what I think of the current descendants of the Prophet (PBUH). Told him my opinion that it doesn't really matter as long the person is of piety.

    He doesn't agree, and goes on telling me about the elevated status of the descendants Prophet (PBUH) etc. Apparently he claims to be one of the descendants.

    To be frank, I respected him a bit more for his lineage after that... Until I saw him downing a can of Heineken at an office gathering.

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  10. I don't know lah. We're a big joke. That's why I usually keep quiet.

    Look at the Chinese. Spacewalk,large foreign reserves, topped the Olympics tally, greatest UN & bilateral aid donor, etc. In the seventies the 1.3 billion were hungry and wearing the same drab around. Today, they are exporting almost anything from foodstuff to high tech products.

    I look at my ancestor home, Indonessia. Gained earlier independence, resource rich, fewer people, etc., and languishing in poverty and debt. Wallowing in the excesses of religion, corruption, etc.

    Malaysia is also likely to go the same route I guess if it's not careful.

    Susah lah . . . .

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  11. Assalamualaikum,
    please read this my two cents experience and thougts about arabic http://tanya-ustaz.blogspot.com/2009/06/hakikat-ayat-ayat-cinta.html

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