Thursday, February 22, 2007

The Bankrupt Mat

Malays’ Current Money Habits Will See the Community in Financial Disaster.

Do this simple experiment when you have the time: stand by the side of a busy road in Singapore. Now count the number of cars that drive past and note down the driver’s race. You will soon observe that most of the time, 2 out of 10 cars will be occupied by a Malay family.

There may never be a proper poll on Malay car “ownership” but one cannot deny that lately there has been a surge in its number. Things like these are simply noticeable. 2 out of 10 is a very alarming statistic even for a straw poll, considering the race’s population makeup and socio-economic status. Malays make up only about 14% of our population, most of whom are not within the high income brackets. But “buying” a car seems to be the latest craze among Malays today.

Junior government officers, dispatch riders, clerks, traffic wardens, and even security guards - just some of the typical Malay professions who are now discovering that they can suddenly “afford” the ultimate middle class symbol. It used to be that Courts Superstore was the only place where Malay men would chalk up huge instalment plans on their frivolous purchases. But ever since the enactment of the $0 down payment allowance for cars, the Malay man’s obsession with instalments now includes his dream set of wheels.

Malay Money Habits

Malays have had dubious money habits since time can remember. Commerce and economic aspirations was never a regular feature of our culture. Accumulation of excess wealth is generally frowned upon as it’s considered avaricious and evil. Any excess that one has should be shared with the community. Malays are, after all a very communal society.

But the situation changed as time moved on. Realising the importance of success, a handful in the Malay community advanced themselves well socially and economically. They found good jobs and good positions in society. The quality of their lives improved and they soon could afford bigger homes and other symbols of the middle class like cars and fancy home interiors.

Inadvertently, the growing affluence of this relatively small group of Malays bred silent resentment among the rest. Pressure grew among the majority members of the Malay community to keep up with their well-to-do relatives and friends. They too wanted the middle class symbols like cars and fancy home interiors. Materialism slowly becomes part of the Malay culture in Singapore. It doesn’t matter if people had to borrow money to get these symbols, as long as they kept up.

Today easy credit is available wherever you go. The booming economy is seeing Malays happily lapping up symbols like cars, home renovations, and fanciful weddings – on credit. I personally know a poly grad friend who recently took out a $30k loan to fund a lavish wedding reception complete with a live bands and a famous DJ. And yeah, a car loan is on the way for him too.

Chaps like him are not uncommon today. Many of our youngsters are indiscriminately taking on numerous credit cards and needless car loans. If the situation is left unchecked, the community will be self-destructing financially in the near future. Already the signs are there. According to a figure by the credit bureau, Malays now make up the biggest chunk of personal bankruptcy rates percentage-wise.

All it takes is for the economy to go into another prolonged recession before the rest check into the poor house. This will have serious implications for all of us as Malays are a relatively poor community to start with, struggling to build even our mosques and madrasahs. Something needs to be done and it has to be done soon.

Four “I”s of the Malay Money Habits

Malay Money Habits are characterised with the following 4 ‘I’s. They are namely income impairment, imperative to impress, inclination to credit and imprudence in financial matters.

1. Income Impairment

It is well known that Malay workers do not earn as much as their counterparts due to their education level. The majority of our young professionals enter the workforce with only an ITE certificate or Polytechnic diploma, drawing mediocre salaries with nominal yearly increments. On top of that, our community is still dealing with a large number of premature school leavers. Most have no impetus to neither carry on studying nor improve their earning capabilities and are set for a life of perpetual mediocrity.

However the need to feel like a member of the middle class runs high and meagre income earners bridge this disparity by taking on loans. Today, more and more meagre income earners are proudly driving around in brand new cars clouded by delusions of grandeur.

In a retirement survey conducted by AXA, it is discovered that a large percentage of Singaporeans will NOT have enough to retire on, despite the government raising the minimum CPF level to $120,000 by 2013. Needless to say, those in debts today will find themselves in a very grave situation tomorrow. Sadly, most Malays have not woken up to this fact.

2. Imperative to Impress

There is a very old but notorious motto that a lot of Malays live by. It goes “Biar papa, asal bergaya”. (Let me be broke, as long as I look good).

This need to look good is a powerful force indeed. It is the same force that drives many Malays to breaking their banks every Hari Raya. Spunky clothes and accessories, classy interiors and the latest home entertainment system are a must when friends and relatives come over to visit. To most Malays, debt is something that you can think about later, what is most important is to look impressive in front of others now.

If you head down to a public car park opposite Jalan Afifi on any given day, you will find a stable of about brand new cars – all belonging to CISCO security guards from the HQ building opposite. I’ve been observing them for quite a while now as I pass by the car park on trips to the swimming complex.

Right here where I live at Eunos Road 5, we have two Malay parking wardens who issue parking summons– in their own cars. I find it hilarious though that when they park their vehicles, they themselves do not display parking coupons but yet go around issuing summons for it.

I’m singling out these security guards and parking wardens not because I am demeaning the professions. But I feel that having an entire platoon of Malay security guards and Malay traffic wardens who drive around in their own cars; it’s a sure sign that ours is a community heavily laden with debt. Trouble is brewing.

3. Inclination to Credit

When I was ten-years old, I had a religious teacher that really hated me. One day, she unwittingly whined that the class shouldn’t demand a children’s day treat from her as she has not paid her car instalment for the month. I knew very well that Islam forbids both the taking and payment of interest. That was the reason why I quizzed her innocently about the interest that she’s paying on her car loan. Needless to say she made my life in class miserable from that day onwards.

It’s menial but true. Most Malays’ definition of “affordable” applies to the monthly instalment figure. As long as the monthly instalments can be made it is considered “affordable”, ignoring a very specific injunction in Islam to avoid paying things on instalment if interest is involved.

I’m not sure exactly how this culture came about but this is the exact mentality that most Malays adopt when they step into places like car showrooms and furniture stores. It is the same mentality that has put so many Malay families in dire consequences.

This mentality has to change. It is a culture that has been around for so long that other communities are making fun of our living-on-instalment ways. Malays must train themselves and their next generation to stop looking at the monthly instalment figures when making a purchase. If you cannot afford a liability in cash, you cannot afford it, period.

4. Imprudence in Financial Matters

People who understand financial matters are still few and far between in the community. Despite being university graduates, I have seen a few friends who got themselves trapped in negative equity situations while buying property. Worse, many still are not even aware of what terms like “negative equity” means.

In today’s complex economic climate, it is not enough to just be highly educated. It is more important to have a sound financial knowledge. The average leader of the household must be able to tell the difference between a bad debt and a good debt, the different types of mortgages and its pitfalls, and basic mechanics of the world’s financial markets.

Not only will these skills make Malays less susceptible to moronic money decisions that could lead their families into trouble, but they will also find themselves in a better position to benefit from it.

Action Now

Malay financial delinquency is an issue that has not received enough attention by the community. Perhaps they think that it’s an issue that needs no immediate arrest as compared to other more pressing dilemmas. Already our leaders are battling a host of social problems such as teenage pregnancy and single parenthood.

But the irony is, a financially dysfunctional community is the perfect breeding ground for more of such social problems in the future. More resources must be devoted to educate Malays, especially the young men, on financial responsibilities and sound spending habits.

A local newspaper reported not too long ago that there has been an unprecedented increase in the number of Malays applying for Zakat (alms), most of whom are young Malay men in their twenties. If that is not a wake-up call for the community, I do not know what is. If we let this problem go unchecked, a majority of our Malay families in the future could be led by a Bankrupt Mat as the head of the household

Postscript

Being in the twenties myself, I understand the temptation to be behind the wheel sometimes. Yes, it’s pretty swell to drive up your date to a nice romantic inaccessible-by-public-transport beach after dinner for a nice chat under the stars. Yes, having a car at your command does have its perks. But being plagued by debt and liabilities should not be one of it.

An alternative that I personally use is the automated car sharing services. Using your mobile phone, you can activate one of many cars all over the island with just one SMS. The cars are new, clean and come in a wide variety of models to choose from. You get to drive all makes and brands while a car owner would usually have to be contented with the one he “bought”.

But best of all, you worry nothing about the monthly instalments, road tax, insurance, maintenance, breakdowns etc. Though I drive most weekends, my car bill rarely exceeds $100 a month. With the money you saved, you will soon find that a car is within your means, cash, by the time you’re 35 – if you really need it.

On a more interesting note, women seem to make much more financial sense than their male counterparts. In casual conversations, most of the tertiary-educated Malay ladies I know have told me that they do not admire men who drive. (The same cannot be said of the lesser-educated ones though).

According to one, starting a family with a car-bearing male is equivalent to starting a family saddled with debt, right from the start - a very dangerous concept indeed. It just takes one unforeseen disaster such as a serious illness, an accident or a retrenchment, before the entire family descends into a total financial shamble.

Maybe Malay men should drop their ego and listen to their ladies more.

72 comments:

  1. hey bro. i really love ur writings. keep it up dude. i think this issue is long overdue.

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  2. i wonder if ST would publish this entry if you submitted it as a letter to the forum. Better yet, you should sell the "financial problems cleanup" idea to some of them issue-discussing programme producers There's been too much of them sex awareness shows that doesn't seem to do anything to the young kids so keen on sexperimenting.

    this reminds me of Oprah episodes, where she helped 3 families (with the help of financial advisors)manage their finances.

    i'm not sure if you've seen it but it's damn good la.
    we should have that eh in lieu of them sex awareness shows.

    k i just googled and found the url.
    www.oprah.com/money/debtdiet/money_debtdiet_main.jhtml

    enjoy!

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  3. brother muhammad ridzwan

    im really impressed that young men like u still do exist in the malay community.

    i have given up on malay men. i used to think that all malay men are the same with their smoking habits, lepak-lepak and habits of getting into debt. but i am very glad ppl like u are still around.

    keep it up! hope to see more of ur writings

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  4. I am a ethnic Chinese Singaporeans. I do believe that keep up with the Jones and flashy consumerism behaviour is a by-product of aggressive advertising and marketing in today's world. You will probably find the same trend in the younger Chinese population here. I have lived in Australia for a period of time and noticed that same trends. The young today are prone to be mirred in huge amount of debts for unnecessary purchases.

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  5. It's sad but true. Some could'nt see or smell the danger that lies beneath.

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  6. u are a sore loser
    so what are u saying malays should drive cars?

    so we just let other races drive cars? why not go back and live in a kampung?

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  7. Your comments are applicable to other communities as well. Nevertheless I like to think that Malays driving cars is a sign that the community has made progress. Good progress inspite of the discrimination they face in the job market. What do we all work for? A house and a car is the minimum. If these are not attainable what is the point of working.
    These people driving cars should be held as role model so that others in the community will aspire and strive to acheive. A good sign for the community.

    By the way, do you have statistics to show how many have their car repossesed? My causal conversation with a leading finance company indicate the number is small and within expectation.

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  8. What you wrote applies to other races and cultures as well. And it is not confined only to young people, although those habits and mindset may be more prevalent in the younger generation.

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  9. to holy cow :

    i do not agree that working is for the buying of house and car "minimum"

    this is exactly the mentality that has gotten so many malays into trouble. im a malay and i read berita hairan often. lately there are so many cases of malays getting bankrupt and having the notice of bankruptcy published in the papers.

    this is something u cannot appreciate unless ure a malay. and i think its about time smth like this is acknowledged and discussed

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  10. The Malays are just a part of the low-income consumer base that got attracted by the buy-now-pay-later media campaigns.

    From another perspective, it's just successful marketing.

    Just gotta be careful and know where you stand; and what you can afford.

    Capitalists.

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  11. for a community that apparently emphasizes religion to its core, it's a bit bewildering to notice most malays are identifying success with materialistic entities.

    but the most saddest thing is that malays are not even malay-ing with each other.

    me, guilty as charge.

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  12. Hi Ridzwan,
    Thanks for this article. It is very well written and reflects the environment in which we live in. I guess the next thing to do is to try and spread this to people who have not realise this facts.

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  13. right..yr entry is sure agreeable by most people including myself. and i figured you shouldnt just focus on one race community to tell but in general.
    perhaps you would like to partly blame the parties who started the easier or convenient method of owning a car these days. its just purely marketing and most fall for it. in lay man's term, if you have the opportunity to own a car by not having to earn a large paycheck, why not? dont be mistaken but at least it makes someone happy at the end of the day.
    i'm sure most malay men will just say "its my money, my life what do you care? and even if you care what can you do about it?" get what i mean? i fully understand your writing motives but i dont quite agree on yr "Maybe Malay men should drop their ego and listen to their ladies more." statement. do you yourself actually drop yr own ego and listen to yr lady(if you have one)?? i'm sorry to say but a rightful man should be able to think for himself and not listen to others.
    anyway, i think the key word here is mainly "RESPONSIBILITY". everyone should be responsible for what he/she does and not let others carry your burden for you. if everyone carries the responsible attitude, then no one will be in debt/trouble. it doesnt matter who you are or what you do, you only get a lifetime on earth. use it wisely and dont focus too much on how others live their life.

    p.s: "carilah jalan balik kamu sendiri"

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  14. hey interesting article there
    however it is sad that u made these comments based on views 'judging the book by its cover'. Personally i believe that there is nothing wrong with traffic wardens or the cisco officers owning cars. Its not right to judge just based on an external view. We dont know their financial health status, if its a dual-income family, or even so these people might be doing two jobs at one time. The artilce centered around the example of owning a car. Well i shall say its all about needs wants and demands. You never noe that the warden has a need for a car to transport family, kids, sick parents, disabled grandparents....... What saddens me the most is about the way the article was written to degrade the malays...... I still believe the habits mentioned does not apply to the Malays only but infact to many Singaporeans. Maritocracy in education has slowled led to maritocracy in social status.... Well all in all i am not here to judge but just to offer my two cents worth of thoghts for everyone to think about yeah!
    ps: its also heartening to read this articles and see so many comments posted.... this shows that many of us still do care and partake in community development ;)
    Thanks and Best Regards

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  15. To help your community ( and every other race ) be more aware and better understand the problems raised in this article, you should really consider sending it in to "The Straits Times". It's read-worthy! :)

    - Mag

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  16. Only Allah Knows wat you thinking Bro So Good luck on your work..for all the malay bro/sis dont take to hard.just do wat ever your dream is may Allah Bless all the Bro/sis here.

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  17. dear bro
    Don't worry about how other malays live their lives. They will make do. They'll downgrade their flats to settle the car loans and use the balance to get 50" plasmas but don't worry, they'll get by. Maybe you should worry about how someone as eloquent and talented as yourself without any commitments and all the time in the world still have problems buying a new car in cash?

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  18. I heard this ridzwan is not malay.
    He's mix of indian?

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  19. indian? well he looks like a mat himself though. looked him up at www.friendster.com/ridzwanx

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  20. what makes u think he cannot afford a car cash now? i know of many ppl who can buy a car at the drop of a hat but choose not to drive becos they're smart not to give the govt money.

    anonymous, u must be a malay.

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  21. Not everyone who gets a car wants to show off, Ridzwan. You have to wake up and realise that.

    The feeling I get reading your entry is that you are very bitter about not being able to afford a car. Because if you were to talk about how bankrupt we (malays) are, you can cite other examples. Why the attention on cars only?

    Some of my non-malay friends are experiencing difficulties paying their monthly instalments for cars. So, you see, it's not only a Malay problem. And certainly doesn't apply to only non-grads. I've got a grad friend who still had to take a loan from a bank to finance his wedding. I've got NON-grad friends who saved and managed to pay off everything without taking a loan. So you see, not all grads are clever.

    And most grads NEED to be more open-minded. Yes you highlighted the problems of the Malay community, but if you want to talk about such a big topic like this, you should seriously do more research. Or not generalise as badly as you did.

    If all grads turn out like you, I pity our future generation. Because you have that "elitist" sort of mindset - only grads and above SHOULD own a car. Non-grads, don't. Malay girls who are un-educated are all making stupid comments, and having stupid wants, like wanting to marry a guy with a car. Trust me Ridzwan, I've got grad friends, Malay/Chinese/Indian/whathaveyou, they want to marry a guy with cars.

    So, Ridzwan, conclusion is, you better save up LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS of money right now. You wouldn't want to have a house that's empty without furniture (instalment with Courts? NOOO!) and a wedding without a caterer, and a wife and kids who are not satisfied with you and think you aren't doing a good job as leader of the family because your house is empty and you don't have a car.

    Face it, instalments are a musthave sometime in your life, unless you are rolling it in like Bill Gates.

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  22. reading nur's comments i'm really made to wonder, maybe there is no more hope for the malay community with ppl like her.

    she said that installment is part of life? saying that ridzwan would leave in an empty house?

    im not sure about urself but there are ppl out there who are actually making graduates starting pay of $3-$4k a month.

    pls dont look at everyone like they are poor. not everyone needs to take installment at courts.

    i am 28 and have saved about $45k for my wedding and house expenses. im sure mst graduates with normal grad pay will have about the same amount. do i need to take installment? i dun think so. so wake up nur.

    and can i aford a car? hell yeah. but why would i be so stupid to live with one? in singapore? ure such a joke.

    so pls stop ur stupid comments that installment is smth that u cannot live without.

    perhaps u should change jobs and get one with a better pay

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  23. hey..i happen to stumble on this site & this article really caught my eyes!for all it's worth,i think it is high time someone highlight the above points that you had made.This is reality people and i agree with what Wan has to say about affordings cars and stuff.Malays should be more proactive in how much they earn and what they can/cannot afford.
    I seriously think this article creates general awareness to the Malay community.Keep up the gd work!

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  24. reading fas' comments i'm really made to wonder, maybe there is no more hope for the malay community with ppl like him/her.

    not only did he/she miss the point completely, he/she made it a point to gloat how much money he/she had saved up. all the best kiddo.

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  25. It's lucky that you're Malay, otherwise uptight morons will call you racist and one might even make a police report against you.

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  26. I think it's pretty rich that you are so proud to be racist ....

    Calling "niggers" lazy was common in the deep south of the United States 200 years ago ... it is almost funny that you promote these sick opinions on the 200th aniversay of the abolition of slavery ...

    Your comedy timing would be impeccable .. if what you are saying was in the slightest bit funny.

    Frankly I know I'm not going to change your mind on the subject .... but I wanted you to know that I pity you that you have to live in such a narrow box of bigotted opinions.

    Luckily the rest of the world has moved on even if you haven't. Reasonable people think that if an entire race is in a disadvantages position in society ... it is more likely to be the fault of society ... not the minority who find themsleves at the bottom of the pile.

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  27. I belief each individual has their own priority in life.And I belief whatever their lifestyle
    is; is fine as long as they know to problem solved and does not cause any problem to others.
    As a responsible people you just need to remind and make them think of the choice they make.

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  28. the boy with slits on his wristsApril 2, 2007 9:54 AM

    heh~ ... The 'melayu makan melayu peh orang-s' are here as well. =) peace out~

    wa pon melayu beb~
    wa pon isap rokok~

    p/s: what have you guys done besides reading this superb entry?

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  29. Hey it's his opinion .. who are we to say. And its not about being racist or what.. but come to think of it, IT IS happening in our malay community sadly to say. Denying it will just make it appear that the problem has been solved where in real fact nothing has been done. That's why we all should individually instil strong sense of good moral values in ourselves and have a thinking malay community as the end product.

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  30. hi rahman here, i like your article....it's good you wrote it. it seems that some people disagree with you, they even try to compare this problem as similar to other race, the point is this, percentage wise, they are more successful then us....my advised to people who disagree with you is to try become a housing agent, then they know that many malay dont know how to manage their financial. why housing agent? pasal agen rumah tahu banyak rahsia....gua bukan agen rumah tapi ada ramai kawan yang kerja tu. dont worry i dont think you are racist. you are just trying to help your own community by writing this article. by the way alot of my friend dah ada kereta (0%) and they only have ITE or Diploma cert and work for a company not businessman. even my sedara yang bawak teksi pun baru beli kereta.

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  31. An interesting reflection, while not necessarily entirely accurate or unique only to our community. In any case, reality bites. Our people may find it hard to accept the harsh truths about ourselves and often end up defending our faults. That tends to slow down our progress.

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  32. look around you more often. open your eyes a little more. you're just noticing the stereotyped malays the way i see it. while, sure, you're brave enough to admit malays' negative tendencies, but you have to give credit to those who try to prove something to the society. something like malays are as capable as the other races.

    our malay youngsters who read this, i think it'll just bring their hopes further down in whatever they do. i think you should at least try to show that malays aren't just nothing, not just look down on everything they do.

    i mean, hey, i believe in something. reading your post, i doubt it if you believe in that same something.

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  33. I wrote sort of a reply to your post. Check it out huh.

    http://mindspeaker.blogsome.com

    -mindspeaker

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  34. This is a well-written entry, which addresses a pervasive but often overlooked problem. The thing is, your readers cannot be certain for sure if it is indeed a problem without the facts and figures to back it up. I do believe that the problem of living in debt is not exclusive to the Malay community, but at the same time, I do wonder sometimes, like you, how some Malays can afford to buy cars and spruce up their cars with ridiculous stickers and other flashy modifications.

    One thing you have to acknowledge with regards to our community is that we are making progress. The far too common sight of the teenage mother with her blonde streaks and overly-powdered face might suggest otherwise but we are. We are more educated and we are earning more. And some of us have even benefited from being brought up in a dual-income household. So perhaps the meteoric rise of the Malay car-owner could be attributed to our relatively greater affluence? Plus, in the last year or so, cars have been much cheaper than they were before and are now.

    The thing about perceived affluence is (I say 'perceived' because compared to that of the other communities, our level of affluence is rather low), it gives one the illusion of affordability. This is potentially dangerous because like you said, we don't necessarily have the financial acumen to manage this.

    To me, living in debt is reflective of society's desire now for instant gratification. It is not exclusive to our people.'Buy now, pay later' is just too tempting a prospect to ignore. I guess the question is if our spending habits will potentially be a burden to our loved ones. If not, then who cares if a Malay guy is driving a neon-frenzy, flashing circus of a car? But if that modification came at the expense of his daughter buying her school books for the semester, then we all ought to sock him in the head with our diamond-encrusted baseball bats.

    I like that you have opinions and that you obviously care about our people. Keep the fire burning.

    Saiful,
    Malay.

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  35. I'm just gonna say...this is not exclusively a malay problem.

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  36. Frankly, I was a boisterous malay woman who starts earning her first 3K at the age of 21. Naturally, the first thing, even if I wasn't a malay, would be to try out your newfound "status" among your firends from school. It started harmless enough, with a credit card. Then make that 3 cards. Then you start to buy things off Ikea Credit, then IMM Card, then Isetan Card and of course, Tangs Card, the list goes on...You can't help it..its yours for the taking. Months after you are met with bills that after immature calculation, can still be settled by paying its minimum sum. Than you are on the roll again.. One day, when you woke up, you no longer have your notebook or a salary slip at the end of the month cos you are just hit by THE recession. What a girl to do rite? Of course, being a young girl, i sat on it, hoping it will dissolved by itself. 2,3 years later..the letter of demand from the banks lawyer seems to lost it way to my mail box. Did they really disappear? I was wrong. In 2006, I got slapped by summon from the bank with a bankruptcy. I chose the easy way out. I paid 2.2k and made myself a bankrupt in Nov 2006 for owing a whopping $180K within 5 yrs plus interest! Now, I am a bankrupt and I am only 30,lol! I dun have the freedom to travel at ease and much less to owe anymore bank for the REST of my prime life. My name is up in MAS for all the wrong reasons. Sure I did reasonable stuff with the extra funds but still, I don't think I have the maturity to handle that sort of life then.
    Life's good still cos my hubby is protecting me and providing me all my needs incl of my Volvo XC90 and my house is my hubby's pte property but not everyone's as lucky rite? I still have my 100++k in my CPF but that will do for my retirement years.
    To Ridwan, I have to pat you on your back. I hope this recount of my life will be a good fundamental before running up the credit facilities.

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  37. What Ridzwan has to say is a nudge for all of us Malays. I'm sure he doesnt wanna see us Malays being the ones who has to get by monthly with so little cos we have so much installments to pay monthly. I believe he is concern of what will become of us if we were to depend on instalments. True enough, it IS happening. For those who took it too hard, you either felt like it was directred at u or u feel offended cos u just got a car with instalments.

    Take it easy guys, this guy he just wanna wake us up. I believe car instalment is quite ok. Cos if u were to save like 50k, it would take years. But furnitures can be saved. Tell me which furniture would cost $50k? But if u cant even afford to pay furnitures by cash, then why bother buy a car?

    I'm sure he focus this post on Malays because he cares for our people. Not because he havent done enough research and that he doesnt know even other races are facing the same problem.

    Take it easy and dun take this post too personally. Take it with a pinch of salt.

    ;)

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  38. Assalamualaikum Bro Ridzuan

    I enjoyed reading your article and I must admit that it is about time Malay community wake up and smell the reality that is not coffee but mountainful of personal debt.

    This issue has many social and cultural implication which need reflection and change. In oreder to see this we need to go back to the basics of life and ask ourselves fundamental questions like "I need transport, do I need a car?", "I need to get marrried but do I need that $50K wedding?" and " I need a roof over my head but do i need a condo?".

    Sad but true many succumbed to peer pressure and their weak nafsu. The need to please is so prevalent that if one act differently, one may be look down by one own's relatives.

    But at the end of the day, we need to ask ourselves that it is US that will be the consequences. Bearing this in mind, we can try to adapt to simple living (but not neccesarily equate to no quality of life.) It is a matter of haaving a mind of your own and not go along with the herd mentality.

    At the rate the spend and stay in debt, they have lost time to make money via investing. If only they realize this opportunity that is slipping through their finger, they can perhaps change their financial priorities.

    Anyway, just sharing my two cents. Look forward to reading more of your illuminating articles. Well done!

    Regards,
    Zaki
    zaki1975@gmail.com

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  39. it seems that many has taken offence to your posting, seeing it as a critique of a race. i salute oyu for your bravado and honesty to write on this difficult subject. its shameful to see some comments more focussed on trashing the writer rather thna get into a constructiove discourse on the subject itself.
    stay true to your wirings, ridwan!

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  40. Hey Ridz, now do you see how difficult it is for your race to even accept a critic from you, a young man carrying a Malay name? Some even questioned if you're a pure Malay. As if there's some relationship to it! LOL...how shallow the Malay comm can be!

    And what about the rest who think you're downplaying, degrading, putting/ playing/ looking down at your own people, calling you 'proud' and an elitist'? Aren't they displaying signs of inner uneasiness, imbalance and instability due to your insightful account, and in the midst of attempting to cover up, began making loud, rude and empty gestures just to appear strong, dignified and presentable? LOL...

    This almost reminds me of the blacks back in the 20th Centruy American. They were struggling to raise their own social status then, in all of the society's fields and arenas, and there came one Martin Luther King, Jr. After fighting the white supremacists in the external, he turned inward to fight against his own people - the inner groups who championed the 'black supremacism'. It was then that he realised that Man are all the same everywhere. It's the inner devil one must challange against and win over.

    To you, I say: kudos. I'm a Chinese and I've no problem naming all ugly traits and characteristics of my own race. It's just that many can't get past this illusioned element called 'race' - they think that once they belong to certain 'race' they must defend and make it looks good, no matter how and what.

    That leaves one to wonder aloud: if one cannot even criticise his own race/ people, then who can? God? Well, this probably explains why some people are so defiant of human's laws, peceptions and thoughts - they really think that ONLY God can rule and judge them. No other human can even criticise or suggest any change or improvement of attitude/ mindst/ mentality.

    Little did they realise the moment they adopted this thought, they have already lost the spirit of humanity - something 'their' God forbids one from doing so.

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  41. What if it's the man's wife who insists on getting a new car and not the man himself? The man knows even though he can afford it, it would mean being financially tight month in, month out. But it's the woman who insists on keeping up with the Joneses even though they don't even earn a fraction of what the Joneses do.

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  42. brother ridzwan

    the problem is that owning cars in sg has a shelf-life of 10 years only. only in sinkapore, it works that way.

    the price of a car is manipulated by the govt. in aussieland, i can buy a car and keep it for life!!

    thats the big difference, cos in sg, you will be forced or tempted to change a new car after it hits 5 years, then you will be locked up in anpther loan with the banks, which in turn will never end.

    if you decide to sell off your car, you wont be able to receive the $$$ value of your car left, cos they only give you a bloody certificate to keep.

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  43. personally, i feel that one should exercise self control, and must be able to understand one's own finance ability. no point blaming on loans, on government, or even people.. i feel that its PREVALENT and relevant to/in all races, it might not be in a 'necessity' in having a car for the rest, but something else...

    i would like to say that the entry was of quality. the writer did reflect in the shoes of 'these' people. there are currently NO cures to all this bane, (psychiatrist maybe?) dont be so hard on someone who is jus trying to say a piece of his mind on HIS BLOG... jus a comment, hope the community patronizing his blog understand...

    bottomline that i will say is: 'exercise self control'
    it'll go a long way..

    peace out..

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  44. being 'rich' here equates to being debt free.

    thats the reality of living in Singapore; applies to all.

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  45. Assalaamu'alaikum

    I admire your effort in highlighting the real financial problems faced by a section of our population. Your initiative is commendable, and I especially like the part where you offer an alternative solution to the 'car problem'.

    To improve on this piece of work, I would suggest that you back your writing with links to the relevant statistics which you seem to have gathered from elsewhere, or give specific citations to any published material that you have referred to. This is especially important since you tread on the issues of race and money.

    Some of those who are critical of your writing seem to have missed your point and intention. Some erect straw men and beat them. Some even go to the extent of discussion your appearance or roots. These are obvious signs their of weaknesses, I feel.

    Muhammad Hirman

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  46. dear ridzwan

    this is happening in our malay community now.like it or not.

    sadly we are muslims.

    as muslims,aren't we all reminded to 'hidup secara bersederhana'(live in moderation)?

    i'm sure if we apply this reminder to our daily lives,we won't be burdened by debts,insyallah.

    by the way,i don't think you are trying to insult the malay community (and sadly some of them even suspect that you are not a malay).i'm sure you are just trying to point out that as malays,we sometimes get carried away with materialism until we forget that we live to survive and not survive to live.

    dunia ini sementara dan hanya pentas hidup.jgn lah kita kejarkan dunia sangat.baiklah kita ingat pada akhirat,yg mana kita akan berkekalan buat selama-lamanya.

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  47. Ah, but we are better off than the average Malay in either Indonesia or Malaysia. Thanks brother!

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  48. Ridwan, very well written.

    As for Nur... you are a good example of the points the Ridwan wrote. If you are married I do hope that your husband is not burden by your installment way of life. Hopefully he don't default on you. (if you understand what I mean)

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  49. im a malay malaysian.

    so thats what singaporean call meritocracy? is it fair? the key to all issue is providing the same level of education to all, regardless of their race or religion.

    here,a car is a necessity, not luxury. its not uncommon among malaysians to own 2-3 cars now.

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  50. i agree.
    i realise alot of malays are buying
    cars.

    however most of the cars are off-peak cars.

    and i thought usually malays are very supportive of their own kind. example proton, prerodua.

    but i am seeing alot of OPC Geely CK.
    isn't that a china made car?

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  51. To the malaysian malayDecember 25, 2007 5:49 AM

    please do not comment on things you don't know.

    if you don't know, malays don't need to pay for their pri/sch/jc school fees.

    and every race have to same treatment/opportunities by the government.

    not like the stupid bumiputra rule in your country.

    just see how rich the chinese are in malaysia and indonesian.
    they owns expensive sport cars, even ferrari and lamborgini.

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  52. I thought that was a good article and brought up many interesting points.

    However, I think that you need to back up your facts a bit more. Standing by the road and estimating that 2 out of 10 cars belong to Malays is not valid proof. Also, you should not base your ideas just on your observations, for example, of the security guards. Their children could have bought the cars for them and paying for maintenance. I know of a few personally who do. Maybe if you chatted them up and asked them some questions, it would have made your argument so much more stronger. Also, some people are using a car as means of transportation for older people who have a hard time moving around, even though they have to take out loans for it. Taxis are available, but they are not as convenient and readily available during an emergency as compared to a car.

    While it brought up many things for us to think about, I think that you are adopting the view of an outsider. I assume that you are tertiary educated, and as you mentioned, most Malays graduate with ITE certs and poly diplomas. But how many of them do you actually talk to and discuss this issue with?

    Nevertheless, it was a very good entry and it's great that you are thinking of issues regarding our community.

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  53. I strongly agree with you bro. This trend is coming out of hand.

    Keep up the good writing.

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  54. dude you are darn right. at last someone from within is willing to voice out. i like the part where you said we could observe malay families in 2 out of 10 new cars on the roads; also the piece on pasar malam cars. i was wondering why on earth there are car sales booths in pasar malam.

    fas, yes nur is a perfect example of how shallow this lot can be. and pls dont look at starting pay only. i've heard a family member (non grad, sadly) saying he along with his friends did not bother doing a degree (not sure whether he's qualified in the first place) as they could get a better starting pay than a grad. pls dont fall for this trap, dont look at starting pay as the final yardstick. pretty soon these lot will be looking for a second job to make ends meet. and buy everything on credit :-)

    ridzwan, what line are you in? i'd like to consider you for a job in investment banking. really really. if your credentials are suitable of course.

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  55. some funny feedback here. what ridzuan wrote had lots of truth in it, although obviously there are exceptions.

    dollahbola, dont try to compare with malaysian malays. there are lots that you dont know. let's keep the topic focused.

    nur, keep up that mentality yeah. or is she simply ridzuan's creation as an illustration to his points? if you're a real person, open your eyes - in spore you only need a car if you have a family with kids. public transport is the best in the region. if you worry about instalments, dont buy. in fact, if you worry about not being able to afford a major repair like a car's gearbox, forget it, you cant afford a car.

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  56. ridzwan is a senior officer in the govt service if i am not wrong. i dun think division 1 officers are allowed to take up more than 1 job.

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  57. ridzwan must one of those melayu elites in singapore.
    dun pray pray.

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  58. well not a part time job of course. but then if he is really a rare talent govt service would do him lots of good, although not necessarily at a junior level. he could e better of somewhere else at first (like working his crap off accumulating experience and moolah then joins govt service). seriously. the community seriously needs someone like him (disclaimer - i dont know this guy but if he does what he preaches, then he's a gem). i've been in this country almost 10 years i'm tired of seeing the stereotype sporean malay. sorry mate, but that's the truth. admitting a problem exists is a good start. those in denial, all the best to you.

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  59. hey laxana kempas, gimme the job instead la. i dun have a job.

    yup. ridzwan is a govt officer with 3 pips on his shoulder rank. checked his friendster. so got ord got job lor. dun think he will take your offer

    me! me! :P

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  60. email him. he replies to emails fast and friendly. though he does not reply to comments. i dunno why.

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  61. Well said, keep up the gd work...

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  62. The only reason why these people is against your write up is because it hits them hard at the proper place..

    Kepada semua org melayu, sedarlah bahawa kejadian yg tersebut telah dan masih terjadi dikalangan masyarakat kita.. Kalau bangsa kita asyik tidak boleh menerima komentar sedemikian, sampai kiamat pun bangsa kita tak boleh maju dan berganjak dari takuk lama.

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  63. Hi , I agree that we need to educate the community about this matter.
    I been doing this for 4 years now and last 2 years i devoted the time more for malay community.
    I am very open to idea if you can pass this massage of what i am doing to our malay community about this issue.

    I believe there is an urgent need to educate young grads about this issue,

    Do visit my blog as well my website for more detail on the programs about money.
    Salam
    AbangAbu

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  64. Don't really know enough to comment on this being a Malay phenomenon per se, but regardless of race, I'd be really happy if you were a senior officer in a govt org, brings a smile to my face :)

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  65. nliyana@nus.edu.sgJune 1, 2008 8:44 AM

    Why blow up the matter out of proportion? Your statistics are a few and taken out of context. The issue is not exclusively limited, or strictly applicable to the Malay community. I'm Malay, female, a university undergraduate from a low income household. My father is a security guard, we do not have a car, use no credit cards and we live a modest lifestyle. Whilst I respect an individual's right to free speech, I feel that there is a certain level of responsibility that one should undertake to avoid these kinds of over-generalised statements. Although I respect the great lengths that the author of this said blog has put himself through by standing at roadside peering into cars, as academic and professional as that sounds, I do question the external validity of his results. As concerned as the author is about his supposed observation, as biased as they may seem, I feel his rather negative labelling of the Malay community is more dismissive in nature and seeks not to find a solution or even an understanding of the said observation. Rather, he is expressing his distaste in a pseudo report where he sensationalises a rather sensitive topic for the benefit of no one else but his own self-inflated ego. The author’s quoting of a proverb that I simply am unable to get any reference material on, and is purely a belief on his part, with no solid evidence. I find that it is merely a baseless assumption that he has assumed to a truth.The use of race is subjective, first and foremost, an entire race should not and must not be defined by the actions of any person(s) that the author has claimed to know of. Similarly, it is unfair to say that a person should have certain negative attributes by virtue of his/her race. I wonder if the said author has had unaddressed issues in his life that he has externalised and blamed an entire ‘ethnic group’ for. As readers who go through a complicated cognitive process based on personal experience, general history and various levels of media exposure, I feel that the readers should not be insulted by the author’s definition of a well-deserving middle-class standard. The accepted middle income bracket generally ranges according to accepted socio-economic standards of a state. Whilst the general Malay population statistically lies amongst the lower middle income group, these figures are based in a developed state with an economy with unusually high disparity between the high income earners and low earners. On a final note, his take on the matter might actually be a step back in inter-racial relations and will not address any issues that he thinks he has raised.

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  66. First of all this is a blog. it never claims itself to be a scholarly work. i'm not sure wt liyana has against this fella that she has to take out personal comments against the author by attacking his ego etc. well done, you are very professional indeed.

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  67. Hi Muhammad Ridzwan Rahmat,

    I am utterly impressed by your blunt and swollen with honesty reply. Indeed, good advises normally do not sound like music to the ears.

    I have worked in an office held by different types of Malays. My ex boss is a Malay. Head of Dept, Degree graduate, owns a private property and personal car. Has great foresight and good leadership, regiliously go to the mosque and conducts his prayer sessions in the office. He has to manage an approximately SGD 1million monthly budget under excruciating circumstances. And for the past 6 years, the office always managed to survive. While other offices ran by other heads always have problems meeting operational and cost benchmarks. Eventually after 6 years, the office ranking rose from the last to be the first, beating the 1st runner up by a mile. And on top of that, he has a very unique charm of extinguishing firey tempers. No matter how bad the situations look, I have never seen him losing his temper or raising his voices even for once. His capacity of using people to work for him is vast. A perfect muslim leader you can say.

    On the other end, I have quite a few Malays ex colleagues who are severely debt ladened. And are still considering buying a car and adopting more children. Rushing into deals without consideration.

    And I am sad to say Malays like my ex boss is very rare. But they do exists. I hope to find more Malays having the profound maturity of my ex boss and elevate themselves from poverty.

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  68. I am Malay, my father makes $2500 a day, I live comfortably, and I find buying new clothes and accessories for hari raya the stupidest phenomenon that exists. Fact, you'll wear that stupid thing once then chuck it behind your closet. Fine, you may wear it for the odd wedding or something but getting a new garb(or worse, a few) for every year is really irrational. I haven't bought a new baju kurung for 2 years and I'm doing fine.

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  69. Hello Everyone,

    Just happened to bump onto Ridzwan's blog. From the postings, I believe there are many caring individuals here. My apologies, Ridzwan, but this has nothing to do with your write up. Anyway, it's an excellent piece.

    I'm currently leading a project to replace the mattresses and beddings at the Jamiyah Children's Home. See my appeal below for support and assistance.


    'Hello Everyone,

    On 2nd August 08, Saturday, we took 25 children from the Jamiyah Children's Home for an excursion to the Singapore Flyer and McDonalds. It was an enjoyable trip for the children, however, apart from the excitement on their faces, the sight of their living conditions profusely returned to our minds.



    The Jamiyah Children's Home cares for children who are mostly orphans, abused, or from dysfunctional families that are unable to care for them. There are about 100 children living in the premises of a former polyclinic. They sleep in very confined spaces with beds placed in rows. They have no choice or options. What made our hearts crunched was when we saw mutilated foam spilling out of tears on their already much worn out thin mattresses. The poor kids were literally sleeping on wooden boards. There was no support what-so-ever from the remains of the so-called mattresses. The mattresses remind us of the sponge used by car wash stations.



    We are appealing to your kind hearts to raise funds to give the children new mattresses and bed sheets.



    With the kind assistance of these generous merchants, we are able to secure prices for these items:



    Mr Tan from Yi Sheng Furniture (Blk 399 Yung Sheng Road #01-01)

    High-density foam mattresses at S$68 each (from his retail price of over S$90)

    Natural cotton filled pillows at $5each (from his retail price of S$7)
    Mr Ivan from Sheng Yuan Trading (Blk 221 Boon Lay Place #01-106)

    Single fitted bed sheet with pillow case at $6.50 a set (from his retail price of $10)

    The cost of 100 mattresses, 100 pillows and 200 sets of bedspread will put the total funds required at S$8,600. Currently we have raised S$2,500 amongst ourselves and we require another S$6,100. Name of donors and contribution will be listed and distributed to all for transparency. We will also attach the receipts of the above purchases.



    We sincerely hope you can assist. Any excess funds will be used to improve the living conditions of these children. Let us all make a difference for them. Once we are able to organise the purchase, we will invite you to the home to witness the delivery. I am sure you will feel the same sense of warmth when their little hands take ours, and kiss it ever so gently to show their gratitude.



    You can reply to us on email or contact any one of us on our mobiles for your support.


    Many thanks,



    Heri Fitri, Jerena Tan, Gina Poh, David Ye and Sabrina Jacobs'

    You can contact me via email at 'heri@herizalfitriconsultants.com.' or txt at 9455 6551.

    Ridzwan and everyone here, once again, my apologies for the intrusion.

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  70. Thank you for sharing your thoughts Ridzwan and like some of the others who have posted their comments, I enjoyed reading your observations and reflections, and being a Malay myself, I share similar sentiments. I have come across some Malay parents who seek financial assistance to help their children through school and when I probe deeper into the family situations, many of these parents are young and healthy couples who should be out working, finding any jobs that they can to support their families. Instead, I have women in their early thirties who stay at home because they need to look after their school going children. I respect that but when I asked if they could find part-time jobs that allow them to work while their kids are at school and they will be home by the time their kids are done at school. And usually the replies I get is 'no' because they want to do their housework. I am sorry but housework is more important than bringing in money, no matter how small the amount, that can help the household? How did that kind of thinking come about? And it's a vicious cycle as the kids will learn from the parents and repeat history when they start their own families. I am sorry if I am stereotyping and may often some readers out there but it becomes something personal when I come across these cases and try to help parents get jobs but then get different reasons why the job is not good enough. I guess it's easier to just ask for financial assistance. Once again, thanks for sharing your thoughts on this!

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  71. Hey Bro,

    What u had written is a good wake up call for us all, malay or otherwise. I went through a financial nightmare years back so I can relate to the content of your topic. You have to experience to believe. I can blab and blab about my experiences and some of the people I know but the outcome will still be the same.

    When it comes to financial matters, you don't have to be a rocket scientist. It's just a simple principle of addition and subtraction, anything you add, you need to subtract somewhere, thus if you do not have anywhere to subtract from then you will have a negative balance.

    This is a worrying trend, just look at what happen in US and Europe now.

    To those out there, its ok if you are financially sound and want to own a car of your own, irrespective of whether you are a secuirty guard.. graduate or not, however if you are not and living on the byline, then I suggest public transport is the best. Ask those expatriates or foreigners, most of them will agree with me.

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  72. Bro wan...

    a)
    Muslim religion
    153. The Legislature shall by law make provision for regulating Muslim religious affairs and for constituting a Council to advise the President in matters relating to the Muslim religion.

    Constituition Of Singapore
    http://statutes.agc.gov.sg/non_version/cgi-bin/cgi_getdata.pl?actno=1999-REVED-CONST&doctitle=CONSTITUTION%20OF%20THE%20REPUBLIC%20OF%20SINGAPORE%0A&date=latest&method=part&segid=931158661-003585

    how can I trust muis.GOV.sg with my zakah?

    bro wan,I can understand about your misery for your ustazah to take a loan and pay interest

    it is an interest of the gov to let us be in debt as debt alone is an another term for modern day slavery...

    we are their resources hence we have to be control/slaved

    mayb this may seem out of topic to your post but it isn't...

    things doesn't happen in random,maybe they hire some malay folks to propaganda stuff...

    who knows...?

    for whatever's worth...
    [it is true that malay are not as civilized as other races IMO]

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